I wrote this book because divorce is a roller coaster ride that we do not have control over. When we walk down the aisle, we don’t have a Plan B in our back pocket. ‘Till death do us part. For many of us, the fairytale changes and we think we are the only ones. We immediately fill with embarrassment, shame, and sadness, unsure of what our future will look like. That was me – and my goal with this book is to show others how divorce can be the most empowering experience you go through to find your own voice and identity to design a life you choose, confidently, instead of feeling stuck in the one your ex left you with. I give you a head start by outlining the same 5 steps I walked to find myself (a former people pleaser and codependent) and heal after 16 years of marriage.